The First Steps
A true story taken from
Memoirs of a Naughty Wife
A collection of autobiographical erotic stories
by
Julie Jensen
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This story is also included in the collection "Memoirs of a Naughty Wife, Volume 1" as well as its special online version available on the web at www.happyhotwife.com
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Overview by the author
This story is entitled "The First Steps" because it tells of an experience my husband, Mike, and I had back in the era when we were making the initial baby steps toward a sexually open lifestyle. It was our very first actual swinging experience; our first venture into the "lifestyle" you might say. It turned out very well considering it was not only our first time but the other couple's first time as well. The experience gave us both a taste of something good that would be very difficult not to pursue in the future.
For me, it gave a sense that, if I played my cards right, I really could, as the old saying goes, 'have my cake and eat it too'. For the first time I truly realized that marriage did not necessarily have to inhibit my wanton sexual desires, but could actually support me in fulfilling them. My love and respect for Mike strengthened even more as I came to understand that his love for me was truly for me, and did not hinge on exclusive possession and control of my sexuality.
Mike, who was 26 at the time, had been good friends for a couple of years with a guy named Rick who was about the same age as him, and worked for the same company. They often ran into each other at work and got to know each other quite well. They were just "work friends" for a long time until they got together a few times socially through a mutual friend, Frank.
When the events of this story took place, I had just turned 24 and Rick's wife, Lilah, was only a few months older. I didn't really know Rick very well at all and I knew his wife only slightly better. I did remember her from high school where we were in the same grade though not in the same class. The four of us had socialized as couples a few times, had always had fun together, and appeared to be very compatible.
This particular night, we were going out together to a local dance that was being held very close to where Mike and I lived. Our daughter was away at her grandmother's place for the night so, to save Rick and Lilah from having to drive home, we suggested they come back to our place after to continue the party and stay over.
We had a lot of fun at the dance. I was dressed a little overly sexy as usual (with Mike's encouragement I might add) with mini-skirt, low-cut blouse, and high heels. As usual I had lots of attention from the men there and likely pissed off some of the more prudish wives. In other words, it was a fairly normal social event for me at the time. We were all pretty keyed up by closing time and not quite ready to let the evening go, so it seemed like exactly the right idea for the four of us to take the party back to our place.
The way it turned out, the party was really only just begun when we arrived back at our place. Before the night was over, I had sex with Mike's best friend and he had sex with his best friend's wife. We had taken the first real steps toward a life of sexual freedom and exploration and neither of us had any desire to turn the clock back. In fact, in the days and weeks following, our own sex life became hotter than ever and we were so excited about the possibilities that we were almost like kids at Christmas time.
Looking back now, it's a wonder everything worked out as well as it did. Nevertheless, it did work out very well and I have to say that having sex with my husband's best friend that first time was one the most outstanding erotic experiences of my life. I think that was partly due to the fact that what we were doing was taboo; the "forbidden fruit" factor as Mike likes to call it. Having sex with another man for the first time in nearly eight years probably had something to do with it also.
Being able to have sex simply for the fun of it with no strings attached, and with the sincere approval and encouragement of my husband, was fabulous. In fairness, Rick himself also deserved a lot of credit for our success together. He was like a man who had saved up his sexuality for a long time in order to release it all in one night. He was truly amazing that night and although we got together a number of times over the years since then, we were never able to quite capture the magic of that first time.
For Mike, that night provided an insight that changed his perspective forever. He always considered me to be a deeply sexual woman and freely admitted that it was one of the main things that attracted him to me. He really seemed to enjoy having a wife whom he considered to be one of the hottest, most sexual women around. Although he was sometimes sexually attracted to other women, that night he began to realize that his greatest sexual interest by far, was in assisting his own wife in developing her sexual potential to the fullest. As he gradually came to understand his feelings and motivations, he became more and more encouraging and appreciative of my drive for sexual variety and exploration.
I hope you enjoy this true story from my memoirs. "The First Steps" is also available in the special online version of "Memoirs of a Naughty Wife" which includes all of the pictures and videos that relate to the stories as well as many bonus articles, photo albums, and videos from my life as a naughty wife. The online version of "Memoirs of a Naughty Wife" can be found on the web at http://www.happyhotwife.com.
Julie Jensen
January 2009
The First Steps
This story is based on true events that occurred in 1982. All names except for Julie and Mike Jensen have been changed to protect the innocent and the guilty.
A naughty conversation
The two young attractive couples sat around the kitchen table, smiling nervously as they downed their drinks with a greater than usual gusto. That evening they had gone out to a dance together and all seemed to have had a wonderful time. Afterward, they had returned to Julie and Mike's house for a few drinks and perhaps, to stay overnight, as Lilah and Rick's place was a relatively long drive away.
Although all four of them had been good friends for several months now, there was a noticeable tension in the air as the conversation drifted toward intimate sexual details that they had never openly discussed before, at least not with people other than their spouses present. It was an exhilarating tension however, not at all unpleasant, and everyone seemed to feel like they were on the verge of something new and exciting
Julie, although normally a little shy, was usually the first person to break the ice on the subject of sex. On the other hand, Lilah was quite a talker and liked to tell funny stories that could sometimes get quite personal. As she related an amusing anecdote about a time when her and Rick were trying something new in the bedroom, Julie listened quietly without saying a word. When Lilah finished the story, everyone burst into laughter except Julie who just sat there with an amused smile.
When the laughter had subsided, she suddenly spoke up and coyly asked, "What is his cock like anyway?" referring to Lilah's husband, the tall, slim young man sitting at one end of the table.