Christine’s Short-Shorts
Inspirational Stories and Poems
by
Christine Brooks Martin
Christine’s Short-Shorts
Inspirational Stories and Poems
by
Christine Brooks Martin
Copyright 2011 Christine Brooks Martin
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Dedication
To the Most High Lord God and Saviour. Thank you for enabling me to fulfill my desire to evangelize and encourage Your people with words that will go into places my eyes will never see and my feet will never tread.
Acknowledgement
My pastors, Ivan Corinth Horton and Nicole M. Horton; my church family, Anointed Connection International Ministries; Jennifer Bihm and Dr. Daniel Horton.
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Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
Hebrews 13:5
When you hear the words “short-shorts” what comes to mind most likely is a pair of extremely short pants. Most of us at one point in time have seen someone wear short-shorts, whether in person, on TV or the movies, in magazines…wherever. Those who wear short-shorts tend to get some attention because it is their motivation and intention. And it doesn’t matter if they have a great figure or not. In fact, some may not necessarily care what you think about what you see. To them, they have achieved their goal of getting the attention they wanted.
“Christine’s Short-Shorts,” is a collection of inspirational stories and poems. These “short-shorts” relate some of my experiences. And some are the result of basking in God’s presence. The motive and intention for using the words “short-shorts” in my title is to get your attention. Not on me, but on an Almighty God who reveals His love, compassion and faithfulness to us in so many facets. I was not a Christian or lived for God all of my life. But after conversion, I soon realized that He had always been with me. He is always evident and ministers to me when I avail myself to watch or listen. So I offer you a look at my “short-shorts” so you might consider who an eternal God has been, is and can be in your life.
When I visit my grandchildren I tend to monitor what they watch on television. Most of the time, it is the cable channels that are geared to youth, history or animals. Once in a while they will rest on a channel that might not be appropriate for them. So I intervene and remind them of the instructions they have been given by their parents because we are careful about what is being fed into their spirits.
I saw the movie “Princess Diaries” with my granddaughter several times and regarded it as a delightful movie. One afternoon while at home, I was channel surfing and came upon the very beginning of the movie, so I decided to watch it. This time I found it to be very inspirational. From start to finish, it teaches a lesson about embracing our Kingdom identity if you view it from a Christian perspective. If you have never seen the movie, I’ll try not to spoil it for you while making my points. Or if you have, then I might provoke you to watch it again.
The main character, Mia, is a teenager who is considered a nerd. But she and her best friend are mutually happy about who they are despite mockery by the “elite” in the private school they attend. One day Mia is summoned to a consulate and on this visit, she finds out about her true identity. The queen dowager, who is also Mia’s grandmother, informs her that she is really a princess and heir to the throne of the Kingdom of Genovia.
The movie depicts Mia’s initial struggle with accepting this information. In my first book, “Pray What God Says,” I share a little about my best friend ministering to me. As I listened to her and other Christians, I discovered that my thinking, words and actions were not bringing desirable solutions to my problems. Whenever I hesitantly followed their wise counsel, read the scriptures and prayed, I experienced significant changes in my life. I struggled nearly 13 years with making a decision to accept the redemptive work of Jesus Christ. I finally said yes to salvation and eternal life with Him. My spiritual tug of war came from feeling that I alone was more than able to fix any challenge in my life. But now, I thank God everyday for His Holy Spirit, who helped me yield and give up “self” and discover who I am in Christ Jesus.
Titus 3:4-7 New Living Translation (NLT)— Once we, too, were foolish and disobedient. We were misled and became slaves to many lusts and pleasures. Our lives were full of evil and envy, and we hated each other. But—”When God our Savior revealed his kindness and love, he saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He washed away our sins, giving us a new birth and new life through the Holy Spirit. He generously poured out the Spirit upon us through Jesus Christ our Savior. Because of his grace he declared us righteous and gave us confidence that we will inherit eternal life.”
After Mia finds out about her identity, the queen assigns a guard to watch over her. He was also responsible for taking her wherever she needed to go. When we accept Jesus Christ into our hearts and confess Him as Lord and Saviour, He fills us with His Holy Spirit. The Spirit of God is our comforter, helper, teacher and much, much more.
John 14:16—And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever.
John 14:26—But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
Mia yields to the transformation that is necessary mentally, emotionally and physically to prepare for her position and inheritance. When we yield to the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives, study the scriptures and pray all manner of prayer, we are being transformed and conformed to the image of Christ.
Romans 8:29—For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
Romans 12:1-2—I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Hebrews 13:20-21—Now the God of peace, that brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant, Make you perfect in every good work to do his will, working in you that which is wellpleasing in his sight, through Jesus Christ; to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.
James 1:4—But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.
Mia receives the gift of a bracelet that has two connected hearts. When we allow a love connection with God, He takes up residence in our hearts. We are able to experience His love in so many ways, and learn to love Him and others in return. We also prove our love for Him through obedience to His will.
Psalm 33:21—For our heart shall rejoice in him, because we have trusted in his holy name.
Psalm 40:8—I delight to do thy will, O my God: yea, thy law is within my heart.
Psalm 69:32—The humble shall see this, and be glad: and your heart shall live that seek God.
Mark 12:30—And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
Luke 12:34—For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
Mia’s transformation is noticeable to classmates even as she attempts to conceal her identity. When we allow the Lord to have His way in our life, the change is noticeable. The perfecting work of the Holy Spirit on the inner man will be evident outwardly. Our new life in Christ Jesus undeniably marks us as belonging to Him.
Matthew 5:14—Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
Philipians 2:13-15—For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure. Do all things without murmurings and disputings: That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;
Even Mia’s grandmother makes a transformation. The queen wore dark colors in the beginning scenes of the movie. For years, she had been in mourning for her deceased husband the king and stepson, the prince. But one day, the guard she appointed to watch over Mia tells her in one sentence that she has grieved long enough. From that point on, she changes her wardrobe, wearing beautiful pastel colored dresses, suits and scarves. Just like that, the Holy Spirit can quicken us with one word of instruction, exhortation through the scriptures or His presence to deliver us or cause us to proactively make changes in our life.
Isaiah 61:3—To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified.
When Mia tries to fit in with her classmates as her true identity, she is challenged and discouraged. Once we become a child of God, there are instances where we can no longer engage in activities of our past or align ourselves with people who resist a godly lifestyle. The environment or associations will challenge your faith and desire to be pleasing to God.
2Corinthians 6:14—Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2Corinthians 6:17-18—Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
She receives another gift of a diary that her father left for her. The Lord will minister directly to your life when you spend time in prayer and studying the scriptures. You receive wisdom, understanding, knowledge and revelation of the truth relative to your circumstances and needs. When you journal, it is an opportunity to capture your Rhema word or what has been unctioned by the Holy Spirit. When you revisit your entries, you will find documented evidence of spiritual growth and the activities of God in your life.
Proverbs 3:3—Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart:
Habbakuk 2:2—And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.
Revelations 1:19—Write the things which thou hast seen, and the things which are, and the things which shall be hereafter;
Revelations 21:5—And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. And he said unto me, Write: for these words are true and faithful.
The diary is sealed and has a red cover. To me, the red cover of Mia’s diary represents the Blood of Jesus. All of our sin, transgressions, iniquities, cares, concerns, trials and tribulations have been covered by the blood of Jesus. Every imaginable circumstance has already been nailed to the cross and overcome by the shedding of blood by the perfect sacrifice, Jesus Christ. Your journal can also be used to write down the deliverance from challenges in your life.
Revelations 12:11—And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.
Revelations 12:17—And the dragon was wroth with the woman, and went to make war with the remnant of her seed, which keep the commandments of God, and have the testimony of Jesus Christ.
The connected hearts on Mia’s bracelet is the key to unlock the diary. The connected hearts represent the personal relationship between you and God. There are secrets that no one else can have access to. Many times they are the desires of your heart that can’t be shared with others. You can write your desires as affirmations or prayer points during your times of devotion. And God has planned to manifest your desires in His due time and season.
Psalm 119:11—Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.
She receives another letter that her father had written to express his love for her. It was also a reminder of her identity, inheritance and responsibility to the Kingdom of Genovia. The scriptures are God’s letters to us. He tells us who He is and who we are in Him. We learn of our access to Him, the Kingdom promises, and instructions for fulfilling our purpose and destiny.
Genesis 17:7 And I will establish my covenant between me and thee and thy seed after thee in their generations for an everlasting covenant, to be a God unto thee, and to thy seed after thee.
Hebrews 8:10—For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, saith the Lord; I will put my laws into their mind, and write them in their hearts: and I will be to them a God, and they shall be to me a people:
Hebrews13:20-21 (NLT)—Now may the God of peace— who brought up from the dead our Lord Jesus, the great Shepherd of the sheep, and ratified an eternal covenant with his blood— may he equip you with all you need for doing his will. May he produce in you, through the power of Jesus Christ, every good thing that is pleasing to him. All glory to him forever and ever! Amen.
Romans 8:17—And since we are his children, we are his heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share his glory, we must also share his suffering.
After she reads the letter, Mia earnestly accepts her destiny and inheritance. The more time we spend developing our relationship with God, we receive revelation of our purpose and destiny. We discover our gifts and talents, and learn how to gather the resources available to us for achieving a victorious life.
Romans 6:4-6—For we died and were buried with Christ by baptism. And just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious power of the Father, now we also may live new lives. Since we have been united with him in his death, we will also be raised to life as he was. We know that our old sinful selves were crucified with Christ so that sin might lose its power in our lives. We are no longer slaves to sin.
1Peter 2:9-10 (NLT)—But you are not like that, for you are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God’s very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light. “Once you had no identity as a people; now you are God’s people. Once you received no mercy; now you have received God’s mercy.”
On her way to the ceremony to be officially presented, her car stalls but Mia’s guard comes to the rescue. When we embrace our identity, purpose and destiny, we are going to be challenged by the enemy. But God has already given us the victory. The power of the Holy Spirit, the angels and the arm of the Lord is greater than anything satan can put in our path.
Isaiah 59:19—So shall they fear the name of the LORD from the west, and his glory from the rising of the sun. When the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the LORD shall lift up a standard against him.
Psalm 91:3-4—Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence. He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.
Psalm 91:11-12—For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways. They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone.
Mia is confirmed and officially presented in her royal capacity to family, true friends, dignitaries, and the world. Obedience to the will of God will cause people to see how God has elevated you mentally, physically and spiritually. Your life will reveal the fruit of the Spirit as you acknowledge and embrace your identity in the Kingdom of God.
1Peter 1:18-22—For you know that God paid a ransom to save you from the empty life you inherited from your ancestors. And the ransom he paid was not mere gold or silver. It was the precious blood of Christ, the sinless, spotless Lamb of God. God chose him as your ransom long before the world began, but he has now revealed him to you in these last days. Through Christ you have come to trust in God. And you have placed your faith and hope in God because he raised Christ from the dead and gave him great glory. You were cleansed from your sins when you obeyed the truth, so now you must show sincere love to each other as brothers and sisters. Love each other deeply with all your heart.
1Peter 3:15-16 (NLT)—Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your Christian hope, always be ready to explain it. But do this in a gentle and respectful way. Keep your conscience clear. Then if people speak against you, they will be ashamed when they see what a good life you live because you belong to Christ.
Romans 14:17-18—For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost. For he that in these things serveth Christ is acceptable to God, and approved of men.
Mia moves to the castle and is shown the territory of Genovia she is to rule. As a servant and ambassador of God, you have dominion and authority over natural and spiritual territories, in measures, realms and degrees.
John 14:12—Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father.
Matthew 10:7-8—And as ye go, preach, saying, The kingdom of heaven is at hand. Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out devils: freely ye have received, freely give.
Matthew 16:19—And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
As you spend time in the scripures, you will learn that you have a great identity in Christ Jesus and the Kingdom of God. The Holy Spirit will help you acknowledge, then learn to embrace it.
As of this writing, I believe that I will remarry. Sometimes I joke about it with my friends by saying, if “he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing” is looking for me right about now, he really needs a Thomas Guide or GPS. I’m not on safari, nor am I exposing myself and prowling the internet sites for my future Mr. Wonderful Lion-King. In fact, I’m very patient and trusting God for His plans, purpose and destiny for my life because it will be Yes and Amen!
In the animal kingdom, the male species present themselves to the females by the methods they were created to use to attract. It is the female who selects her mate according to how she was created to choose. Over the years, humans have deviated somewhat from traditional methods in the pairing process. In the past, interested males would woo (use methods to impress) the female. If selected he got permission to begin the courting phase. After a reasonable period of time where the couple had a chance to learn more about each other’s character, nature, intentions and goals, the male would (propose) ask the female to select him for her husband. Then she could accept or refuse his proposal. In some cultures, selection and acceptance was or is determined by the female’s family.
But now it seems that some women are under the impression that men are the ones who are in complete control of the selection and acceptance process. So they feel they have to flaunt, expose, and “catch” a man by whatever physical means necessary to get a husband. No dear, not so. Relax. You can put away the 3” eyelashes, clothes that are two sizes too small, and the 7” stilettos. Why? Because if you catch him like that, you might have to keep it like that, to keep him like that.
I believe a man should have the opportunity to present and express himself in whatever manner he deems appropriate and necessary to get your attention. Once he has your attention and interest, and if marriage is the expected outcome, you have a responsibility to discern whether or not he can be a suitable and compatible prospect for marriage. Even the laws of the land, (although they vacillate, deviate, and fluctuate) protects the premise that the selection process is all yours. If a man decides to select and take you by force, then by law, he has falsely imprisoned, assaulted and/or raped you.
Until the day comes when you have the opportunity to select your knight in shining armor, you have much to keep you busy. Most women have the mental, emotional and physical preparation together. But spiritual preparation should not be side stepped. This is especially so if you want a godly union that will hold fast to a major covenant vow, “until death do you part.” But before you say, “I’m saved, sanctified, filled with the Holy Ghost, speaking with other tongues, casting out demons, devils and imps, woman of God, knowing my God-given rights… et cetera, et cetera, et cetera,” allow me to offer the following. And that is, to the “Holy Waiting Single Ladies” you need to know how to “Get on the MAP for the one with GPS.” Indulge me a bit.
One day, my friend and I were taking a drive to San Diego. She has GPS in her car so I watched as she set it up for the trip. Once she entered the destination address, the GPS generated a travel plan. It presented an onscreen map showing where we were located. Then it proceeded to guide her with audible, street and freeway turn-by-turn instructions. In addition, it calculated the distance and amount of time it would take to reach our destination. When she did not deviate but followed each instruction, we arrived at the location exactly as the GPS calculated. “So Christine, what’s your point?” Glad you asked.
I desire a ‘happily-ever-after’ with a man with spiritual GPS. To me, GPS stands for God’s Positioning System. The qualities of a man with spiritual GPS are: He is not God. God is God and Jesus Christ is his Lord and Saviour. He yields and submits to the internal compass of the Holy Spirit that aligns and positions him in right standing with God. And he follows the instructions and paths that God has ordained for his life.
In a car, GPS has a map and the destination address must be on its map. If you put an invalid address into the system, it will not generate a path or instructions. If anything, it might generate some information to put you in the vicinity of your request. But here is what all of you “Holy Waiting Single Ladies” including me, must do. We need to be on the spiritual MAP for spiritual GPS to find us. MAP stands for: Maturity in the scriptures, obedience to the word of God and holy lifestyle; Anointed because we are yielded and submitted to the Holy Spirit’s work in, on and through us; and allowing Patience to have a perfecting work in our lives—and keeping busy while we wait. So ladies, you can stop hunting and chasing. If our life is not on a MAP, a man with GPS is not going to find us where we should be. A man with GPS will be on course for the right address, not the vicinity or invalid addresses.
Mental, emotional and physical compatibility between a man and woman is necessary for a fulfilling life together. But for a man with GPS to find a woman who is on his MAP, it is essential for both to be spiritually compatible:
Love the Lord first and foremost, mind, soul, body and spirit:
Deuteronomy 11:1—Therefore thou shalt love the LORD thy God, and keep his charge, and his statutes, and his judgments, and his commandments, always.
Mark 12:30—And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
Be obedient to His scriptures. It indicates your desire to live a life of holiness and righteousness:
1John 2:5—But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him.
1John 4:8—He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
Be filled with the Holy Spirit. Submitting to Him will yield the fruit of the Spirit:
John 15:26-27—But when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, even the Spirit of truth, which proceedeth from the Father, he shall testify of me: And ye also shall bear witness, because ye have been with me from the beginning.
Act 13:52—And the disciples were filled with joy, and with the Holy Ghost.
Ephesians 3:19—And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.
Galatians 5:22-24—But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.
Study and meditate on the scriptures. They are instructions and direction for living a fulfilling and godly lifestyle. Then obey the scriptures.
2Timothy 2:15—Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
Joshua 1:8—This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.
Psalm 1:2—But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
Pray without ceasing because it develops and nourishes you relationship with God:
1Thessalonians 5:17—Pray without ceasing.
Praise and worship the Lord with sincerity of heart. It demonstrates your love for Him:
Psalm 29:2—Give unto the LORD the glory due unto his name; worship the LORD in the beauty of holiness.
Psalm 109:30—I will greatly praise the LORD with my mouth; yea, I will praise him among the multitude.
Intercede with prayer and service for others:
Jeremiah 31:6—For there shall be a day, that the watchmen upon the mount Ephraim shall cry, Arise ye, and let us go up to Zion unto the LORD our God.
2Corinthians 5:18-20 And all things are of God, who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation; To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation. Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God.
Be a tither, to honor God and declare that He is your source of provision:
Malachi 3:10-11—Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it. And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the LORD of hosts.
Know your position in the kingdom:
1Peter 2:9—But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:
Operate in the kingdom power, authority, influence and dominion that will manifest in your life through obedience:
John 14:12—Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father.
The couple that desires to be married will have an expectation that only God is perfect. Both should have a desire, willingness and commitment to unity, faithfulness and submission to one another. They will allow God to referee each condition promised in the vows: for better or worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do you part. Some couples have fought, almost to the death during the better, richer and good health. But each condition is the opportunity for the Holy Spirit to help you learn about and work with one another’s strengths and weaknesses.
Proverbs 5:15—Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
1Corinthians 7:3-4—Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
1Corinthians 7:10—And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
Hebrews 13:4—Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
The list of spiritual qualities could go on, and this is a short list in God’s eyesight. But for a fulfilling life in any area, we need to know, believe and trust that God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above whatever we ask or think. So men of God, make sure you have GPS and holy waiting single ladies, make sure he can find you on the MAP.
In 1998, a dear friend asked me what I really wanted to do with my life and the question was echoed the next day by my boss. This led me to the mirror to check my appearance in case I was unwittingly neglecting something. But I quickly concluded that I was just fine.
I believed the scripture that says if I seek the Kingdom of God, then I could have the desires of my heart. So from time to time I would think about my desires and immediate goals. I felt these goals could to be achievable by hard work, endurance, patience, and a dogged tenacity to stick with it until accomplished. But without fail my goals never came to pass. It was mainly because I had gotten used to settling for less. Consistently I catered to the whims and desires of other people, accepting whoever or whatever found its way into my life. Sometimes I was a doormat for people who showed no regard for my happiness and well-being.
My friend suggested that I write out my goals and desires again. “Hold nothing back and don’t settle for less than the best,” he added. So challenged to desire and challenged to hope, I had to ask myself what I really wanted. I took out a piece of paper and began to list some of my talents and abilities. I realized that I had a knack for helping others become what they wanted to be. Through words of encouragement, I would evaluate and mine the treasures of others to catch the fire of their vision or goals. I coached with ideas, suggestions and sought out resources to help them achieve their dream. Excited, as if their destiny was mine, I worked until their vision was a reality. I really enjoyed helping others succeed but I failed to pursue my own dreams.
The level of expectancy for good things and my desires were modified and distorted so much until they seemed like fantasies. Emotional pain and occasions of rejection I suppressed throughout the years evolved into episodes of depression. I lacked personal fulfillment, and I needed help. Resisting the work of the Holy Spirit as my helper left me kidnapped by depression. The first thing a kidnapper does is get control of you. To hold you captive, they bind your hands so you can’t do anything, like fight or resist. Your feet are bound to keep you from getting away. And your mouth is gagged so you can’t scream or cry out for help. My life seemed like it was stuck in cement, and I didn’t want anyone to know what was going on with me. I felt, looked and was depressed.
When I accepted Jesus Christ in my life in 1992, I was overjoyed about the tangibility of His presence in my life. It made me hungry to know more about Him. So I read the bible over and over, highlighting words that described His character and nature. There was joy in my salvation, wanting the Holy Spirit to have His way in every facet of my being. Then three years later, I experienced a complete transition. Every facet of my existence was challenged: physical, financial, relationships, environment, and career. Fortunately I was a member of a great ministry and found myself in church every time the doors were open. Prayer sessions were my significant indulgences and a source of comfort. Studying the scriptures and a consistent prayer life helped me live by faith to endure and overcome daily challenges.
Although I thought I was pursuing a deeper relationship with God, almost six years later, He had not been allowed into the places in my heart where I needed deliverance from loneliness, rejection and pain. I was casting provisional cares on Him, but held fast to depression that was dictating to my daily life. I was separated from my husband, a single mother, and loving the Lord. I had what the world calls a secure job (nothing is secure), pursued the purchase of a home (representing stability), and whatever came my way. My thinking was: “This is as good as its going to get for you Chris, so keep on loving God. Care for the remaining chick in the nest until he becomes an adult, then just die, go to heaven and be with the Lord.”
When I focused on challenges more than the victories I received when exercising faith, there were pity parties. When I rehearsed the victorious testimonies in my heart and praised the Lord, they moved me out of the confetti corners of misery and doubt. And I would get back on track with God for a while.
When my friend and my boss asked the question about what I wanted to do with my life, I realized later that they must have seen me shifting into depression. When depressed, I usually isolated myself from friends—especially church members. I didn’t read the scriptures nor did I pray. I started to think God didn’t love me and He had forsaken me. He wasn’t moving fast enough in my life. So I concentrated on my problems, creating scenarios in my mind of failure, and envisioned doom and gloom consequences. I was becoming an emotional wreck. And sobbing in the ladies restroom at work began to attract too much attention.
One day I decided to take a drive to a nearby park on my lunch break. The privacy of my car gave me the liberty to cry to my heart’s content, purging every possible tear. Afterwards, I adjusted myself and headed back to work. En route, I started talking to God. I told Him I know He had joy unspeakable and full of glory. Then I yelled out loud, “God if you have joy, then show me what it looks like and give it to me today! Then I added … “Please?”
Just as I made my request I had to stop for the red light at an intersection. As I waited, there was a woman and a little girl standing on the corner and when the “Walk” signal flashed for them to cross, the woman grabbed the little girl’s hand. As they stepped off the curb and entered into the crosswalk, the little girl started skipping. She had a great big smile on her face and her ponytail bounced and swayed as she skipped. She kept pace with the woman until they reached the opposite corner. They started walking in the direction I was driving, and the woman let go of the little girl’s hand but she continued to skip with joy and abandon. The scene grabbed my heart and I burst into tears. I witnessed the Lord’s response to my request.
When I got to the parking lot at work, there was still a little time left for my break. So I stayed in the car and praised the Lord. He ministered to me about what I had seen. The woman was just like God. He takes us by the hand to lead, guide and direct our path. He grips us firmly in the places where our walk with Him may present danger, obstacles or challenges although we have the right of way. But we can be like a child and skip with joy. We can abandon our hearts to His care and safety, even when our hand is not in His. It is all about keeping our faith, trust and confidence in Him.
Matthew 18:3—And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
Luke 18:17—Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child shall in no wise enter therein.
Romans 14:17—For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.
I felt so happy because the depression quickly faded away. And I repented to God for willingly indulging in fear, anxiety, sadness and depression. My actions had opened the door for oppression. I knew better than that because I was filled with my comforter, helper and teacher, the Holy Spirit. He is joy and I resisted Him to have my own way. And I didn’t allow Him to help me, but accused Him of forsaking me.
All of us are confronted with sorrow, grief, and losses in many facets and on many levels. There are times when it seems like God isn’t moving fast enough on our behalf. But we must keep our faith, trust and confidence in Him and do so with patience. Even if our circumstance does not change right away, He is still able to give His peace as you wait. When God works in our life, He removes affliction, pain, brokenness, discouragement, fears and anxiety if you allow Him to. I am so glad to learn that when we ask Him to intervene in any circumstance, He does. Isaiah 61:3—To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified.
When children skip, they always appear to be happy, like there is not a care in the world. And I’ve never seen them do it while sad. No one is taught how to skip but it is something that is accomplished naturally.
The word “skip” according to Wilkipedia is – A hippity-hoppity gait (foot strike) that comes naturally to children. According to the American Heritage Dictionary it is — to move by hopping on one foot and then the other; to leap or bound lightly about; and to bounce over or to strike a surface at such an angle as to be deflected.
After a period of time and maturity, children stop skipping. It is rare to see an adult skip. But Dorothy, the Tin Man, Scare Crow, and the Cowardly Lion did skip down the Yellow Brick Road on the way to see the Wizard of Oz. Although we adults may have stopped, we have the memory and ability to skip if we desire to do so. To me, skipping on the Yellow Brick Road scenes in “The Wizard of Oz” depicts a faith, trust and belief that we are on the right path, God’s path of righteousness. And we will get what we need most from the One who has it all and is able to give it. The Lord gives exceeding and abundantly above all we could ever ask or think.
One evening, a few years ago, while in an intercessory prayer session, we were praying for people bound by oppression and depression. The Lord reminded me of the little girl skipping. So my daughter-in-law and I prayed that the child-like joy and abandon of the Lord would overwhelm the spirit of heaviness and sadness for those who needed deliverance. And in their hearts they would experience the exhilaration that comes from skipping.
If you try it, skipping is a great cardio-vascular workout. And you will most likely get a good laugh, because you’ll think that you, or the other person doing it with you, look ridiculous. When you skip, you are physically leaping up and moving forward. That is what God wants us to do as we grow, mature in Him, and listen for His voice through the unction of the Holy Spirit. Skipping moves us upward and forward.
Psalm 29:4-6—The voice of the LORD is powerful; the voice of the LORD is full of majesty. The voice of the LORD breaketh the cedars; yea, the LORD breaketh the cedars of Lebanon. He maketh them also to skip like a calf; Lebanon and Sirion like a young unicorn.
Wow, can you imagine trees skipping? But God is all powerful and mighty and He can do what He pleases. The spiritual implications of the word “skip” are very significant. Other definitions according to the American Heritage Dictionary include:
1. To pass from point to point, omitting or disregarding what intervenes.
When you know and trust that your life is in the hands of the Lord, you don’t have to indulge in inordinate fear and anxiety of people, places or things.
Psalm 27:2-4—When the wicked, even mine enemies and my foes, came upon me to eat up my flesh, they stumbled and fell. Though an host should encamp against me, my heart shall not fear: though war should rise against me, in this will I be confident. One thing have I desired of the LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to enquire in his temple.
2. To cease consideration or treatment of.
When you guard and direct your thoughts with good things it helps to keep you from dwelling on past failures, present challenges, or an unknown future.
Philippians 3:13-14—Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:8—Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
3. To be promoted in school beyond the next regular class or grade.
Because of obedience to God, your life will yield spiritual growth, maturity, acceleration, promotion, or elevation.
Psalm 92:12-13—But the godly will flourish like palm trees and grow strong like the cedars of Lebanon. For they are transplanted to the LORD’s own house. They flourish in the courts of our God.
Romans 12:2—And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
4. To break loose and leave suddenly, as from confinement or from a difficult or threatening situation.
This is having the ability to escape captivity and bondage to people, places, events, or things that challenge your walk with God and leads to sin. Depression made me feel as though I was kidnapped and stuck in my circumstances.
Luke 6:22-23—Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man’s sake. Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great in heaven: for in the like manner did their fathers unto the prophets.
1Corinthians 10:13—There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
5. Fail to attend on purpose.
You will not commune or engage with the enemy when he tries to provoke you into coming into alignment with his plans. Keep your trust and confidence in the Lord as you wait on instructions from Him.
Psalm 37:7—Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass.
Proverbs 4:14—Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men.
The next time challenges come your way to steal your joy or hold you captive to depression or any other circumstance, remember your position in the kingdom of God. Your enemy satan, will try to gag your mouth or bind your hands and feet so he can ultimately destroy you. So open your mouth wide to praise the name of the Lord. Clap your hands with thanksgiving to your Great King and Abba Father. And use your feet to skip a little.
And all thy children shall be taught of the LORD; and great shall be the peace of thy children
—Isaiah 54:13
Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers near and far, even those who are caretakers for other people’s children. Everyday is Mother’s Day. I can’t forget about the mothers who, for various reasons, are presently estranged from their children. I know and have experienced days, weeks, months even years of not communicating with a child you brought into this earth. The grief and anxiety that comes with not knowing where they are, what they’re doing, and who they’re with is beyond measure.This is more so if there was no confrontation to cause the separation. You can’t report them missing because they are only missing from your life. There were sleepless nights, pacing the floor, and weeping that endured throughout the night, but joy didn’t come in the morning. Just keeping it real.
One rainy Mother’s Day morning about 12 years ago, I sat at my kitchen table looking out the window. I felt as though all the tears I had shed outwardly and in my heart far exceeded the torrential drops that splashed against my window pane. Then I glanced down at the pages of my Bible which was open to the Book of Isaiah, Chapter 54. I had read it before, and it was just that — I had read it before. But this particular day, every verse grabbed my heart in such a way that the tears started flowing but not in sadness.
Through Isaiah 54, God was talking to me and letting me know that He knew all about me — my past, my present circumstances and my future. So much more was going on in my life besides the estrangement from my son. When I got to verse 13 is when I slipped out of my chair and laid prostrate on the kitchen floor to praise the Lord. My experiences at that time demanded that I learn to live totally by faith but the promise of verse 13 gripped my heart.
From that day, I have held on to the promise of God that said, all of my children would be taught of the Lord. To me that meant that all of my children would come to know the Lord and have a lifestyle indicative of that knowledge. They would have great peace — a genuine and lasting peace which comes only from the eternal realm of the Kingdom of God.
I continue to hold fast to Isaiah 54 for my life and especially to the 13th verse because it is a daily affirmation included in my prayers for my children and grandchildren. I have seen miraculous results from my faith in that scripture because my son and I have been reconciled now for over 10 years. I was patient and kept believing in faith that God was able to perform what He promised in His Holy Word. I didn’t do anything but wait and trust God for two years.
I remember the night my son called asking to come visit me. All I said was “Yes!,” and nothing else. When we hung up the phone I cried tears of joy and danced around the room. Hey, I know how to praise God!! My praise was to make sure my son wouldn’t change his mind too. I went to the airport to meet him and when he came out of the tunnel and we saw each other, all he did was grab me. He said he loved and missed me and cried aloud. I know how Joseph felt when he revealed himself to his brothers in Egypt. My son was speechless and we cried all the way home. All I said was I loved him and was so happy to see him again. To this day, I have never asked for an explanation of our estrangement. I have gladly received the work of the Lord and enjoy every opportunity my son and I talk and get together.
Whatever relationship you have with your children, keep praying for them, trust and hold fast to God for the promise that He has given in Isaiah 54:13—And all thy children shall be taught of the LORD; and great shall be the peace of thy children. Amen?!
By the way, if you are an estranged son or daughter, call your mother or send a letter if you can’t see them right now. God will bless you for it!
Exodus 20:12—Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
Life Virtually Virtual - But Ain’t Nothing Like the Real Thing
I am presently processing major transition. Recently my beloved pastor passed away and I miss him. I know he is resting in the bosom of the Lord joining my friends and family members who have passed on to glory. Then, a best friend moved from Los Angeles to a new life in Atlanta, Georgia. Other close friends live in other states and countries now. Friends and I have shared many, many years of trials, tribulations, laughter, tears, joy, pain, births and deaths. Our relationships have stood the test and weather of time. And it dawned on me that all of my “nearest-and-dearest-to-my-heart” friends have transition into the “virtual” world. Virtual, meaning immediate contact is via email, phone, texting, Tweeting, Facebook, Skype and whatever new technology might spring up. Boats, planes, trains and long automobile rides will be the only means of natural contact with them now. Lord, what are you doing with me?
Years ago a high school buddy told me, “You haven’t met all the friends you’re going to know.” My social media connections are evidence of that statement. I’ve connected with people from around the world and all walks of life. But it’s all “virtual” because what I know about them is what they post on their profile pages. True, false, elaborated, exaggerated, or minimized, I get snippets about career, family, thumbs-up likes, thumbs-down dislikes, comment rebuttals to other comments, a few photos of family and social life, and other indulgences. I have “virtual” friends, friends and more friends that I haven’t and may never see face to face. But that’s OK because most of it is about connections of interest and some of it is business.
When I think about the virtual world a great portion of my relationships has evolved into, I can hear my all-time favorite song by Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell, “Ain’t Nothing Like the Real Thing.” And I say to myself, when it comes to time and relationship with my closest friends, “Ain’t Nothing Like the Real Thing.” I know I am going to meet, greet and make some new “natural” connections but I am missing my friends who have moved into the virtual world. I look forward to visits, reunions and reconnections so we can be in each other’s face and each other’s space again. I want to look in their eyes while we’re talking and know that everything isn’t when they say it’s all right. I want to share meals, sights and scenes, critique what we see, hear, smell, touch and taste together. “Ain’t Nothing Like the Real Thing.”
Even though the virtual world is convenient, I like the natural better. I don’t order take-out from my favorite Chinese restaurant by phone anymore. I order on the premises and wait for it. Standing in long lines at the post office or supermarket doesn’t bother me. I get to see, talk to, smile at, laugh with, and sometimes complain with other people. My children and grandchildren live nearby and that is great consolation, because time spent with them is so valuable and precious. Maybe I’ll finally admit that I kinda like their spoiled dog Sugar’s lapdog indulgence with me more than she thinks she deserves it. It makes thinking about the transition of my friends into the virtual world “virtually” smoother.
So until those new “closest-nearest-dearest” friends come along so we can spend some quality “natural” time together, I will keep my DSL working so I can keep my “virtual” connections connected. But.... “Ain’t Nothing Like the Real Thing!!!”
Proverbs 18:24— A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
Proverbs 27:17— Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.
I Can’t Get No Satisfaction... But I Tried God
The world is turning, churning and groaning for the manifestation of the sons of God to be revealed. There is a spiritual tapping on the shoulder of those who are the sons and daughters of God. We are to be devoted to introspection (self examination) and consecration—dedicating mind, will and emotion, body, soul and spirit to Him. Our focus and goal should be to live a life of holiness, in right standing with God through the enabling power of the Holy Spirit. Time in the scriptures, fasting and prayer is the perfect vehicle to get us there.
In the midst of our dedication to the things of God, a little dissatisfaction is bound to creep in. There are so many people who are disgruntled, disheartened, discouraged, disenfranchised, dismayed and just downright “dissed.” Your time, talent, and tenacity works for a moment or for a circumstance. And just when you’re about to exhale, another circumstance presents itself to take the wind out of your sails.
Although earthly things or random favor from others might bring some resolution to your ills, you find that it only yields temporary satisfaction. Then the lyrics from the classic rock song might ring in your ears to wrench your heart or turn your stomach... “I Can’t Get No... Satisfaction.”
Even the scriptures say this is going to happen:
Haggai 1:6 New Living Translation (NLT) —You have planted much but harvested little. You have food to eat, but not enough to fill you up. You have wine to drink, but not enough to satisfy your thirst. You have clothing to wear, but not enough to keep you warm. Your wages disappear as though you were putting them in pockets filled with holes!
Or, what if you are bound by addictions, compulsions and wicked distractions where you have lost all sense of reasoning?
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