Good Guys Get Married… Bad Boys Get Laid
An Alpha-Male’s Guide to Women and Dating

"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude." - Thomas Jefferson

Table of Contents

Chapter 1 – What Women Want

"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude." - Thomas Jefferson

Women want a real man. Not some sissified, sensitive metro-sexual that has been carved out of the pages of women magazines by female authors writing about what women think they want. When I ask women what they want, most are honest and they reply that they don’t know. They don’t know what they want. But, I know what they want. They want a real man. They want a man with masculine traits and values. Not a partner, but a hero, someone they are impressed with, and someone they can admire and look up to. The Marboro man is perhaps a hold over to a time gone by, yet he is sadly missed by most women whether they can admit it or not. The question is: Can you be a real man?

For an alpha-male, being a real man comes easy because it is natural to his nature. Others can learn to be an alpha-male and become a real man to himself first and then to women, later. (That’s where this book comes in.) What is an alpha-male? It is a man who knows he’s a man and is not embarrassed to be one. He doesn’t feel the need to fit in, to be liked, or even to have friends. He knows who he is, what he wants, and goes out and gets it. He is a natural leader and you can tell, because people follow him. Other men want to be like him. Women want him.

Alpha-males don’t sit in the back of the room, they command the room. Alpha-males are thought to be “bad boys”. I say, “thought to be” because they seem a little dangerous.

Wouldn’t you like to be thought of as a little dangerous? Of course, you would! Alpha-males always get the girl… and it usually the one everyone wished they could get.

There is a lot of discussion and talk about men and women being partners in a love relationship. That is a lie. Women don’t want a partner no matter how much they say so. They want a man, a man, who can lead in the relationship. Take for example my friend John who has not been laid in two years. John, if he is lucky to get a date, asks, “Where would you (the woman) like to go?” This rarely makes a good first impression with any woman. Rather, John should have a place in mind already before he even asks her out.

When I first met my current girl friend (a story I’ll get to later), after spending the first night I met her, in her bed, I asked her if she would like to go on a ride with me the next morning. It did not hurt that the ride was on the back of a 2007 Harley-Davidson Street Glide. I took her to a favorite vineyard of mine, not too far away. She had no idea, but, I did! Her house was full of wine stuff. Wine bottles hanging in the kitchen, wine signs and wine decorations everywhere. I did not need to ask her where she would like to go. I just took her there without asking. She was so impressed, and later told me that she thought she had found the one true man of her dreams. In fact, she did!

Women do have an idea of the kind of man they would like to marry. I am not that man! On the other hand, they also know the kind of man they want to have sex with tonight! And, that man is not the same man as the man that she wants to marry. These are two different men. The marrying man is the nicest, most decent man you ever would want to meet. He’s sensitive, a good provider and good father material. However, the man she wants to have sex with tonight is none of those things… That man is going to be you. You can be what women want. It is not determined by how good looking you are; it is not how much money you have; it is not because you have a super hard body; It is because you are an alpha-male and you get want you want.