PARENTING THE BEST CHILD
Managing Infancy and Teen fancies
By
Ahmed Suleiman
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Parenting The Best Child
Copyright © 2012 by Ahmed Suleiman
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This book is a Nonfiction work and any resemblance to persons, living or dead, or places, events or locations is purely coincidental. The characters are productions of the author’s investigation and not used fictitiously.
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Table of Contents
Introduction
The stressed mother
Help for the toddler at home
Fathering
Safe and secure home for your child
Celebrate your child’s pride
You can spoil a child through love
Lend a hand to your child in homework
Effect of vision problem on your child
Pair Pressure
Discipline or punishment
Present your child with a united parental front while disciplining
Handling conflict to the enforcement of rules at home
Making social networking useful to your child
What your child must not put in her social networking profile
Conclusion
Introduction
It is not always possible to parent the best child but it is always possible to try to be the best parent. Learning those parental skills to be a parent to your child before being a friend can be very challenging. The best choice to any parent is to build a solid foundation for their children with a clear roadmap to a solid direction that leads to good decisions in all aspects of life challenges. That way the child will cherish the parent forever as a good parent. Establishing basic standards such as healthy rapport that instil your values such as outing and dress codes, giving most help throughout the children’s’ needs and showing gratitude gracefully at the appropriate times.
The first lesson a child acquires begins from with the parents (mother first), then at home, school, friends or pairs or associates, community and the world around her.
This eBook will explore what roles the parents can take to help the child through these life journeys.
The Stressed Mother
She got up resting her palms on her hips and then stretched up to improve circulation, thinking to herself; ‘’how rapid have I changed in the last seven months?’’ But she couldn’t dispute the opposite image she sees as hers. Even though the convexity of her aching back worries her, she took solace in the occasional kicks, from the life she was carrying.
She must embrace a balanced diet for the nutritional needs for herself and her unborn baby. She has to attend the clinic at regular intervals for necessary checks ensuring proper progression of the natal development. This will be followed by post natal care of both mother and child to herald the beginning of proper care of a new life.
Care of the infancy is a full time job and parent have the responsibility of taking good care of the life they brought to the world. To undertake these duties, the mother, being the closest to the child naturally, has more roles to play at the initial stage of development. If she is a career person, more skills are needed to be able to manage.
As modern mothers are very busy combining office work with domestics, they are likely to be prone to stress. Experts have suggested that child development (emotional and physical) is more helped if the mother is kept in a happy mood. To therefore relieve the mother of her stresses, she must be able to identify and seek help from experts on causes of her stress which could be her fear of not adequately parenting and her complex timetable.