The Right to be a Man
and
A Father
by
George Karavidas, GK
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DEDICATION
To all Men all over the World who are struggling to Make it Right to be a Father.
Also, for the Children that understood early the Meaning of Fatherhood, before their Mother, her Friends and some relatives tried unsuccessfully to manipulate them. As for those unfortunate manipulated Children, I advice them to reconsider by listening to their Grand Parents of both sides… and ignore any one of those where are willing to “save you from the old-fashioned Father of yours”.
Never forget! When your Mother divorces your Father, it does not mean that you are also divorced him, as there is a bond created by Nature and by God that the child is the flesh and blood from both Parents. And when your Mother introduces you somebody else for a Father, with the excuse that this Father is more modern and rich (or younger) so you can have all the electronic devises, Internet, and luxurious holidays, then, first of all she is committing a crime punishable by law because you are your Father’s natural flesh and blood. Also and equal important: Your Father has (by God by Nature and by Law) the same rights and more, than your Mother over you, as is the one who really cares and pays for all your expenses mentioned, by paying her an awful amount of money… But even so, if your Father cannot effort luxurious holidays for you because he is a worker, still he is your Father, who loves you more than his life, and worries about your health and of what you will become in this cruel world! Please take some time to read this book (your Dad will give it to you). By reading it; you may help some other divorced Children as well.
INTRODUCTION
This particular book is written for:
The millions of those divorced Men, where they did not wish to end up their family… and they strive for the happiness of their children, with a hope that they soon will end - up permanently in their home (with both Parents), to love and protect them, from the so call, modern cancer of: Cigarettes, Alcohol, Drugs, Jail, Aids, Theft, Hepatitis, Abnormalities etc…
For the Man - Father who lives by law and shows to his Children the right way to face the world, as his Children are the extension of him. Also to educate and be an example to them, not only for a proper clean way of life, but also to lead and explain of how to control their own Future - Family from all the above mentioned, and more...
For the Fathers, where they ended up in a bracket of injustice, either by a narrow – minded Judge (with the aid of one side Legislation) or by a `bright` manipulated Lawyer, with the ex wife to dictate to him (her Lawyer) of where and what her ex husband weak points were, such as:
A Love and Affection for his Kids
Devoting his life to his Family
Never lie
As much as he earns, he spends it for his family and saves some money for the family to go for a holiday at the schools break and for a raining day, but he was so naive to have his wife into his savings account, where her own savings were for herself only, because she as a woman has many needs, such as: Hairdresser, clothing (and must not be cheap) changing them every day (sometimes twice a day), and of course that was not all! She must have a car, change it every four years or less (Mainly in USA), and because, she does not even know of how to change a tire, never mind of taking it for a service… as after all, she is a woman! Which means, the husband or the children, must wash the car, because of… hair nails…
As for the Parents of the divorced Father (in many cases the Mothers Parents as well), please read this book, as you will be able to see few things differently and you will realize how much power you have in your Sons favor regarding your Grand Children’s affection towards their Father, and while you are reading along about the differences of the Man and Woman, I will `insert` few examples that not only will shake you and make you more experience, but also will soon makes you realize, that you may see your Son’s problem so logical and common, because it happened every day, in all walks of life, all over the world, but never crossed your mind to see them in a way that will end up with your son needing you, instead of you needed him… but I promise you, things will change, and soon!!!
Please: Parents, Divorced Men and Women. Grand Parents from both sides; have a good look at all the subjects mentioned in this book, but pay closed attention to the burning subject, who is: THE FAMILY.
CHAPTER ONE
Before I will elaborate and try to find solutions for us men to overcome some vital weaknesses that marked the man for many decades, I will read you a statement made some years back, from the worlds foremost Feministic Woman of them all… Non other than the Iranian-born (From English Parents), 2007 Literature, Nobel Prize Winner: Doris Lessing.
The world most feministic woman is in favor of the Man - Father and against the bigmouth and mean Woman!
Her prophetic statement comes in to our days by telling us men to… Resist! This means: Men Fight Back!
She starts with:
“It shakes me more and more the inconsiderateness of automatically downfall of men, to that extent which became part of our day’s culture, and almost nobody pays attention to it!”
Although she admits that through the feministic associations, many drastic changes happened in favor of the woman by having the same opportunities as far as jobs is concern, but nothing had happened on the part of the proper way of upbringing Children.
She carries on by saying that:
“We have many wonderful, smart and powerful women out there…but what happened to the men? Why all these had to be in to their down fall?”
The Nobel - Price Winner carries on by giving an example and a proverb of her own, which she did not like them (both) at all:
“Lately I visited a school - class of children between the ages of nine to ten years old, with the Lady Teacher telling them about the Men, because of their brutality and violence, was the cause of wars, with so many dead…”
She noticed that, the little girls were some how satisfied, with the boys shrunk; feeling that they had to apologies for the rest of their lives, for all wrong things Men did…
”While the teacher was telling all that to those innocent children, she tried to attract my eyes as for me to improve all her rubbish that just had said to the children… These things are happening in to many schools…”
By the looks of it, Mrs. Lessing, was wondering that it was about time that the women, had to re consider and ask themselves of who are those women where continually downfall the man?
As she carries on and on by saying this phrase about `all women` thus she is giving me the right to say loud and clear that: “And including the entire Lady – Judges and the involved Lawyers in general as well, where are ignoring the Rights of the Man – Father.”
Then, she is carrying on with the proverb of her own, that encouraged me to write this book:
“The most stupid, uneducated and mean woman, can easily diminish in seconds the most kind and bright Man, and nobody does anything or complains about it. The men looks like they are terrified and they cannot resist, but the time is ripe to do so”
She emphasized of the wrong way and time wasted of the women feminists:
“Most of the time about feminism had been wasted in a lot of nonsense and a big mouth, where had to concentrate of changing Legislation. Although we have equality in wages, but the equality of the Man – Woman in upbringing Children, has yet to be solved”
And Authors comments about it: “Also to stop the Man – Father of suffering as well, by not taking his children away from him!”
So Men, lets fight back! Actually, this Is the Motto of this Book: Enough is enough!
Note: Dear Man - Father, please, do read this book from the beginning to the end without skipping pages, subjects, examples, statistics, historical happenings etc. thinking that some of them possibly does not ‘help’ your case… I am aware of all that and much more, which you (because of all the stress that you are going through) do not have a clear head (and time for that matter) to read all of these silly examples… because… you want results and fast! It is good to know that if we do not have our minds clear to see that we are Superior to women and Why? Then, we are, and always will be their puppets. Also, in case you haven’t joined yet, the Fathers Rights in your area and you still fighting against your life- sworn enemy (your ex wife) where from the morning until the time she is going to bed, she wishes your distraction, physically and mentally; then, you better do it right away. In case you do not have one in your area, then enter Internet and search for Fathers Rights, in the State or City that you are staying, closed to you.
Furthermore, you will find many addresses and sites from all over Europe and USA… Also, at the back of this book, my email address will be available and please feel free to conduct me, for any (Silly or not) questions you may have (I am a Psychologist, not a Lawyer) and if I cannot help you, I will find the right Man and Father to give you advice (free). If we keep conduct between us Men, exchanging opinions and ideas, but above all we must be united (Regardless the age, single, divorced or still married) then, not only the pain will be less and less, but also it will go away permanently and you will be closer to your flesh and blood… Bear in mind that, when people of the law; such as Politicians, Legislators, Presidents of the Court, Lawyers and Judges, who will read this little indignation book, they will re consider and change the Law, not in our favor, but to the Stable Family (Besides the fact that most of them are not divorced).
In case you noticed that the Fathers Right in your area, has not made from Fathers in Stress, but from professional crooks, where are only thinking of charging money while your ex with her clover Lawyer has taken so much out of you, then look through the sites I am including for you… or get in touch with me or to the nearest City closed to you…
Also note: The reason for giving you historical examples, is not only to broaden your knowledge, but also I insert examples in the text that will possibly help you to take charge in Court, when cornered by your ex wife’s Lawyer.
As for all the women (divorced, single or married) where will read this book, I can only tell them that: We, the Men, love and respect you as much as one respects his family as such, and we Men do not forget of what the priest in the church while was married us, said… “To love and to cherish until death do us part”! However, when the Priest said the above, did not mean only our death, but to bear children and grow old together, until… death do us part!
CHAPTER TWO
Major differences between Man and Woman
(The Structure)
Dear Male Reader (and both your Parents, if they are still alive), it is about time that somebody not only speaks out, but shakes the world, as we the Men are not only different in structure and ahead of the Women in any way… even our brain is ahead and `heavier` of hers…
As I have devoted my life helping the Elderly, the Defenseless and the Children (Please look at the last pages of this book) I wrote this book for you: The Man and the Father, to learn something, so in the near future you will end up with your children, so to have a meaning in life for you and them…
Also for the Judge (Male and Female) to see things from our way as well, as I am also a divorcee, where I am devoting most of my life to my only daughter, neglecting my career, social life and alienation from everything I built and created. As to the satisfaction of my Ex., I even neglected my very health; but enough is enough!
From all over the world, the Fathers are now understanding, that they (we) have to be united and one must help the other to overcome this injustice from our very Laws from our very Magistrates, even from our very Lawyers, where they are charging us money just to talk to them on the phone, about our legal rights… They are forgetting that: With out the divorce cases in court, custody rights and all that comes with it out the broken family), where only ten Lawyers out of five hundred are genuine trying to help the couple to reconsider and reconcile, just for the case of the children…, if it was not for as Men - Fathers, they (the Lawyers) would of going to change their professions to something more profitable…
When you will be reading further down, soon you will realize that I do not hate women, but I strongly believe (and I will prove it to you in this book) of:
One Captain, which is, The Husband: To be the Pilot of the Super – Jet, that calls, Home – Family, but with the valuable and irreplaceable Co-Pilot, which is, The Wife, and the assistance of the well - trained - Crew, which are, The Children…
I have no Political or Religious disagreements, with any Nations or Religious Followers; such as Moslems or Islam followers, where the woman is born, not - only to bear children, but to cover her hair as well, as she is the property of the man, where only the man can divorce the woman and certainly (if he wishes) will take all the children with him as well…
Although at this very moment, they have being some changes, mainly in India, where I will mention in this book, as the Indian Father, became one of us.
As I am now leaving in Europe, with many trips to USA and UK, with a break of 21 years in South Africa; visiting many Countries and met with many different kinds of people, I fill obliged to all Males not only to justify the facts of our superiority towards the Females… but to advice and give solutions, to many problems that now we are going through and suffering because we demand: The Right to be a Man and a Father!
We are not only physically Stronger and Agile-Strong, but Faster as well.
Example: Stronger and Agile-strong
Take all forms of weight - lifting: The man is so much superior to the woman, that, she cannot come as close of lifting half of the weights, even when the woman is 10 kilograms heavier than the man.
You can tell me (and you will be right): “But we all men know that!”
My answer to you is: I know we do (and much more) but I only mentioned for all women to see it, and also for us men to remember it (to myself as well) and do not let ourselves carried away… ending up molested economically and emotionally by our ex, and her legal advisers.
An example of the above:
“When we tied-up on a small tree, a grown-up Lion and we don’t feed it; possibly the animal will die from hunger...
When we tied-up a fully- grown - up horse on a the same tree and we do not feed it; then, this animal will not die from hunger because it has so much power, it will up-root the tree and will be free to find food to survive…
However, when we place both the hungry horse and the hungry lion in a high fenced closed yard, then, in less than 5 minutes the Lion will tear the horse to pieces, although the horse is heavier and stronger than the lion…
Which means that, the man although stronger and more powerful than the woman, can also be more dangerous to the woman, even if she is as big and as fat as a horse, because we are not only stronger, but our muscles and tissue are twice and more developed by birth, not only by our mother and father, but also from our mother nature as well.”
Let us start with Athletes:
(Few Examples)
We, the men, are not only superior when it comes against women in combat, but even in all competitions as such: Let us elaborate little bit about, Tennis:
“When Martina Navratilova a woman’s tennis champion, where she was capturing almost everything the world of tennis could offer; then her women counter parts, tried everything possible to ban her from women’s tennis and `transfer` her to men’s division, because (to their imagination) she was playing `like a man` and she had no rights to be among women’s tennis as such. Of course, nothing happened, because naturally, later on she lost from other female tennis players… When we learned that Martina was a lesbian, we men did not get surprised… but we all agreed (men and women) that she maybe was a super star in tennis (against women of coarse), she wasn’t qualified to be a wife and a mother…”
Please note: We will definitely talk later on about lesbians and gay, as the matter is very serious, when children are involved!
Another example of Athletes:
Long Jumping and Running.
“When we see women competing for a long jump (or all forms of Jumping) and we measure their height and weight. By checking them with the man, we will find that although both their height are almost the same, her weight is less than the man, because of the bone structure and tissue… Even so, a lighter body, by doing the same training, developing leg - muscles, should by nature move faster when it comes to running; and so much in a long jump, by springing more forward and higher on the air.
If you let this two competing each other, then the woman will submit unconditionally to the man…by falling more than one meter behind…
The same will apply to all forms of running, also: Pole – Volt, High – Jump, etc. even Soccer and Volley- Ball. All forms of swimming… even the marathon is shorter for women…
As when it comes to the use of instruments such as: Discos, Javelin, Shot – Put and the Hummer…and all the instruments used in Athletes competitions, when it comes to women’s, then are much lighter (in weight) than the men…”
I do not have to elaborate the differences in: Boxing, Wrestling and all Martial Arts… as the outcome is very dramatic for the big mouth Woman…
CHAPTER THREE
Mans Brain: Since the beginning of time, the world was saved by the Mans Brain and his Achievements:
As all we know, the human brain weights about 1500 grams…and varies between the sexes…
Even to that part of our body, the man is superior to the woman:
Einstein’s brain, become a puzzle even for the top scientists up to this day…
Roomer has it that somebody stole it, and the people those days were thinking that possibly wherever did it, was going to sell it for profit… But after some years passed and when the thief died, the scientists find out that, this abnormal admire, had cut it and displayed inside his house, to… admire it only by himself for himself…
Genetic Biology of the newly formed baby’s brain
Do you know, dear ex wives, that: The Man – Father determents the sex of the baby, thus, makes him more responsible and closer than you, for his/her future and well – being in this World?
Dear Mothers and Mothers to be where ever you are coming from, learn something very important that will make you thing twice before comment about it:
For all your feministic organizations all over the world, you have the slogan: Mother is only one! But for us, all the Father - organizations, we wrongly have our slogan: Equal Parenting! BUT, when it comes to the who is who business, and Who is the only one, and who is the Real Parent for the baby that you carry in your womb for your husband and supposed your ‘life partner’, again you fall much behind, as the last three decades, where you were only cared and worried about your career, the Father is more closed to the baby, even when you still carrying it…
Because you only care about your looks than for your happiness to be a mother, by staying in front of the mirror… and you see yourself, looking ugly and funny when you are pregnant… Let alone where thousands of you are wearing tight jeans and very tight underwear, with a result that you are crippling or killing the baby… even before starting to form…
When eventually the baby is born, healthy and well (all thanks to the proper nutrition, proper life, provided by the Father), and to the modern technology of checking out every other month, etc. (thanks to all Men Scientists, who create it) for all organs to be functioning properly, then you suppose to breast - feed the baby, but again most of you (usually are those that are going to divorce at the first change, when they find the right sucker…), you never breast - feed or you breast-feed only for few days, and at the quickest available time, you will run to the gym to shape up your body, letting the infant with the Father (where inside your sick mind, he is your unpaid baby-sitter) to feed him/her with the bottle, and… who cares if the baby will cry…, and who cares because by nature will need his/her mothers touch and hug as well as his Fathers!
By learning few important things, you maybe will change… a bit, so learn little more:
When the brain forms, so the DNA starts to form… thus, when the
Ancient Greek Midwife was advising the early pregnant Mother to see and feel pleasant surroundings such as Gardens, Lakes and Rivers… In addition, be happy by laughing and enjoying themselves… eating slowly and chewing well, stay away of wars, deaths etc. Thus, in this way, the DNA of the child is formed through its Mothers feelings. With the Father to undertake to teach the child as soon as the Mother completed the primary work up to where the boy would be ready to go to school…
But when was a girl, then the Mothers rule was more serious as she had to attend and teach her daughter of what is so strange to the to - days modern world… of how to please her husband and life - partner (without the meaning of serving the husband) and make his home - life a small paradise… where will be enough for all the family members as such.
The husband on the other hand would of take care of all the members of his family, including his and her parents as well (in case his wife had no brother in her family) having as his life - time achievement, to offer the best of the best he could for his Family…
Mans Brain continue,
CAN YOU IMAGINE, that: ONLY in the UNITED STATES and in between the years 1860 up to 1890, there were 440 000 inverted new patterns (all by men) and went through to production with a great success?
Although those inventions and patterns were not only created by Scientists, but also by Engineers and Tradesmen as well, where all of them were helped and assisted by skilled and unskilled workers, where most of the time they were given their valuable opinion as well?
And yet, to day, in the 21st Century, the American Tradesmen, the Skill and Unskilled Workers, where over the years gave everything to their country (even their lives to all wars…) by keeping and maintaining America on top of the world regarding: Invention, production, enhancing the domestic product to the highest level… And yet, these Men - Fathers, are drugged to Court to pay a sworn enemy (his ex wife) for destroying him emotionally first, by taking his flesh and blood a way from him; and financially after, by even taking half and some times more of his salary, where as it is, its already a thing pay - check…
All of the above and much more, happened by the unfair assistance of Legislation in favor of the woman, where (as mentioned) very soon she will go for her next victim…
For the sake of those magnificent Genius (past and present, from all over the world) where they all were Fathers first before inventing, I will honor them by mention only few great men and their achievements; for all of us to remember… As every one of them has his unique way of improving Humanity as such.
I will just elaborate about them for the simple reason; to wake up all those men in Government places (Any Government, any Country, but mainly in Europe and USA) where are voting to pass Legislation, to make the man suffering, and thus make his life miserable for the rest of his life… only because he is a Man and a Father!
In addition, I wish to give the Man and Father some knowledge and courage to fight back against the Lawyer and the Judge, where with out prejudice, they already have made their decision before even he opens his mouth to state his opinion (thanks to Legislation of course…). Also look at: The Law Judge and Lawyer.
Please note: This and all the report – statements right through this book, has nothing to do when and if they are honest Lawmen; either Lawyer, Judge, or a President of a Court, where are only obeying and execute the Legislation when necessary for the particular case, but they first priority will be for helping to restore the Family first…
However, for all of those Lawyers, Judges and Politicians where intentionally or unintentionally harming the low and middle class Man – Father (although they cannot harm financially the upper - class businessman or the high – paid Scientist), they harm him by deteriorating emotionally and drive him… even to suicide.
I suggest: In case they have been busy (the above Lawmen), or they are studding their profession and they have no time to look through their encyclopedia to find that ALL the men where will be included in this book including these three Great Discoverers as well (look through further down on the next page), are not a fairy - tale but real Men and Fathers, where (in all cases) they were followed by faithful Soldiers, ready to risk their lives for the coarse of discovering new worlds; along side of skillful Craftsmen, Astrologists Astronomers, even Cooks! All of course were men… including the Cooks? Also, that Alexander the great where was not only a discoverer (wasn’t a myth but a reality), if had to leave few years longer (he died at the age of thirty-three) the world would be completely different; for our family and our children in particular…