THE SECRET TO SOUL MATE ATTRACTION WITH AFFIRMATIONS
by
Angela Wilde
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The Secret to Soul Mate Attraction with Affirmations
Copyright 2010 by Angela Wilde
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CONTENTS
Chapter 1. What is a Soul Mate?
Chapter 2. Red Herrings
Chapter 3. Attracting Lack
Chapter 4. Sowing Seed
Chapter 5. Seeding
Chapter 6. Remove former relationship ties to make way for your soul mate
Chapter 7. Vision Boards
Chapter 8. Affirmations
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Chapter 1. What is a soul mate?
Some people say there are many soul mates, and others call soul mates “twin flames.” Still others say that soul mates can be in a non-intimate relationship, people such as family members or colleagues at work. In this book I won’t address any of these issues or attempt to figure out better words for “soul mate” – this book is about finding THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE!! We will call this lover (the love of your life, your “other half,” your twin soul) your “soul mate” in this book.
In this book I am NOT going to tell you to improve yourself, or to be happy being single. When I was single, plenty of people with partners told me I should be happy being single. “Easy for them to say!” I thought. It’s like wealthy people saying that money won’t make you happy – but go tell that to someone who wonders where their next meal is coming from!
I was a confident happy single person but I wanted my soul mate. What is wrong with that? Nothing! Also, I am not going to speak to you as if you have no confidence, as I have read many books which seemed to think that if I was single, then I was unconfident and some sort of loser, to be quite frank! All these books told me how to have more confidence or to get better at flirting. I was already confident, and good at flirting – if I do say so myself!
Many books on soul mates will tell you to go fix yourself up and then the perfect person will come along. What if you are already “fixed up!” I mean, there is always plenty of room for personal improvement, but these books seemed to imply that single people are somehow missing the mark, that they need to work on themselves and fix themselves up in some way.
Do not expect your soul mate to be perfect. Be realistic. Do not expect a soul mate to come and solve all your problems. Having said that, do not settle for someone who does not have the “must-have” qualities you want in a soul mate.
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I had been dating – well, let’s just say, unsuitable! - men, so decided that I should be very careful and not date anyone for some time, that is, unless I really thought he was my soul mate.
After a long time of being single, a man came into my life. He seemed to be just what I wanted. However, I met him in a business setting and he did not return my business calls. I took this as a warning sign and should have fled then, but I didn’t. After being alone for some years, it was nice to date again. The happy thought of dating someone led to me making excuses for this man. I soon found out he was very inefficient in business and did not return anyone’s calls and did not deliver his products on time, if ever. (He had his own business.)
I had never been in love before, and truly felt I was madly in love with this man. Everything seemed to be going well, and then one day at lunch he ran away (literally ran) and when we next spoke he said he did not want a relationship and never had, and that we were not in one. I was gut-wretched. Up until that moment I really truly thought I had found “The One,” my soul mate. I spent days sobbing loudly into my pillow. I was well and truly heart broken. I’d had break-ups before, but they were just a drop in the bucket compared to the deep pain I felt then.
He kept in touch as we still had business dealings together, and soon afterwards I drifted back to him, until we broke up 6 weeks later. Three months after this, he got me back and said he did want a relationship but that he was scared as his (ex) wife had run off with another man some years ago, and he had not thought he would ever have another relationship. A few weeks after this, one day out of the blue he said we were not in a relationship, never had been, and that he wanted to be alone forever as no one could ever match up to the relationship he’d had with his ex wife – I was shocked! At that point, as much as I was in love with him, and as much as I knew he would be back to his “usual” self the next day, I had to put an end to it. I could not continue. This man had also borrowed several sums of money from me on several occasions, and did not pay back a cent. I had also paid several of his bills. In hindsight, I wonder what I ever saw in this man in the first place!
Meanwhile, my best friend was dating a man and had been on and off with him for 12 years.