Free of Influence
Zarevic Radoslav
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Copyright Zarevic Radoslav © 2010
Published at Smashwords
Chapter 1
With this book I wanted to show what had happened to my country individuals have been brought down and how we still are in a condition which can not be qualifies as natural and healthy in fact, how we have become one very obsessive society. When I begun to consider that in those hard times I was astonished with how much politics had slipped into our lives. It is quite normal to talk about politics evan to be politican , but not to such extent as shown here today which is totally unacceptable I think that nobody has talked about all this until now I am able to talk about it because I am not addicted to politics and because I still refuse to accept that politics control my life so utterly. As a matter of fact I shall never accept that kind of life and such relations. The whole of my mind is protesting against such appreciation of reality perhaps because I love freedom so much. Let me ask you why I would limit myself after all especially if nobody is bothered by my behavior, except maybe people who are bothered by every kind of behavior. When you limit your life in that way you must watch every move every second of your life , because somebody who is obsessive with politics could explain and understands something which you do not want it is unnecessary pressure and there are people who simply "know ,”who to make life much worst than it already is. Till now nobody had talked here about how politic influenced our lives perhaps because people accepted politics as something very essential, trill, amuse something very interesting. But what is really important is that in real life I will end up as a stranger as some kind of maverick, but certainly not the one who is obsessed with politics.
Has anyone ever tried to think for just one moment about what our lives looked like in the past before all this had happened to us? Had we been living by the clock, thinking about politics when we went to work or school? Had we thought about dates of important political moments when we went down town with our friends, when we went shopping or to listen to a concert? To put it briefly, we have lost our freedom.
I mean I can’t find the right words to express how wrong it is to watch the world trough “glasses of politics”. We have somehow managed to turn our lives into some kind of video game. Politics is just one small segment of our lives which are much broader in scope.
And is not pretty picture when you see people being grouped in tribes that don’t communicate with each other, and being obsessed with politics. It is simply not nature, makes you feel badly. Human beings can not think only about politics. For me it’s impossible to express how I feel when I meet people who explain everything that you do exclusively via political meanings and symbols. To put it briefly, we have lost our freedom and we put our lives in some kind of cliché.
In fact, when man does not feel free then his life has no much validity and we are wrong when we try to create limitations above the ones that already exist in this world.
Freedom is something limited. We like to think that freedom is something unlimited, but it is not the truth. In ordinary life we always meet with limitations and why would we make a new above the ones that already exist?
Therefore, Politic was the most powerful and very important factor in everything that happened here, but there were also other factors which influenced the way we’ve been relating to each other and evaluating the quality of our life-time .Those factors are universal and have influenced us in the way that we made so much wrong judgments and as consequence of all that we have very bad, poor and not healthy life.
Those kinds of relations will be more thoroughly explained later in, this book. Moreover I will show you how to leave this state how to make your life better instead of living in a “cage”, and how to live without "chains”. Because spiritual chains are as heavy as the real ones
Chapter 2
In this part of the book, we will talk about factors which are of dominant and crucial importance to us –people in Serbia –putting us all in an unpleasant position and made us more nervous and confused. Although those factors are universal in their nature, I think that they fully express themselves here. I will try to analyze those factors which resulted in bad quality of life and also try to understand what had really happened here. It doesn't matter if you are known or unknown to other people because I wrote this book for the benefit of all people who want to live better life. It doesn’t matter if you are ordinary person or famous or public figure who works for an official institution or state government. What is common to all of us is that at one moment in our lives we experienced unpleasant things from ambitious individuals, we were defamed, slandered and we had to tolerate opinions that weren’t in accord with ourselves. All that brought us more disappointment lack of understanding and more pain. We were pure victim of wrong people's judgments. To us, as well as to those who had done wrong to us mostly unknowingly, life had less beauty-in fact had been more tensed more, nervous and more depressive –our lives had less quality. Each and every one of us can easily find examples in his life that attest to this claim. Famous persons accept these games and that is a price of being known, but when an ordinary man is slandered by ambience’s people the unpleasant feelings are doubled. Those who are judged are not in good position, but those are judging them consciously and with Icy could very easily be put in their position and feel all cruelty on their skin. In other words, everybody can easily become victim and object to people who speak about him things which can hurt. We can talk about moral side of our situation, but it is not our main topic right now, although it is always important. I mean the pleasure which somebody can feel when trying to fold in into somebody else’s life.